Community Guidelines

OurSecret works because its members hold a standard. These guidelines are the standard. Breaking them can cost you your place here.

Be real

Use your true identity, your real age, and a recent photograph of yourself. Impersonation, catfishing, and misrepresentation are not tolerated.

Be respectful

Treat every member with courtesy. Harassment, hate speech, threats, and unsolicited explicit content have no place here. “No” is a complete answer; respect it.

Strictly adults

Members must be 18 or older. Any content sexualising minors, or any account found to belong to a minor, is removed immediately and reported to the authorities.

No solicitation

OurSecret is for genuine connection, not commerce. No escorting, prostitution, advertising, fundraising, or requests for money.

Keep it lawful

No illegal activity, no sharing of others’ private information, no spam, and no attempts to circumvent a block or a removal.

Consequences

Depending on severity, violations may result in a warning, suspension, or permanent removal — sometimes without notice. Report anything that crosses these lines using the in-app tools or support@oursecretdate.com. See also our Safety page.