Safety

OurSecret is built around depth, discretion, and consent. Safety is not a setting we bolt on — it shapes how the whole service works.

How we keep the community considered

• Application & review. Membership is reviewed, not automatic. We verify age and the submitted photograph before admission.
• One person, one profile. Authenticity is required; we remove fake or misrepresented accounts.
• You control your visibility. Pause your account at any time to go offline.

Reporting and blocking

Every conversation includes Report Profile and Block User. Reporting lets you flag a member as Deceptive, Underage, or for Harassment, with optional detail. Blocking immediately stops a member from viewing your profile or contacting you.

Our team reviews every report. We may warn, suspend, or permanently remove members who break our Community Guidelines, and we cooperate with law enforcement where required.

Dating safely

• Take your time — there is no pressure to move quickly here.
• Keep conversations on the platform until you are comfortable.
• Meet first in a public place and tell someone your plans.
• Never send money or share financial information.

In an emergency

If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first. To report a safety concern to us, email support@oursecretdate.com or use the in-app Report tool.